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Dating safely

Most people you meet are exactly who they say. These habits protect you from the few who aren’t.

North Carolina Department of Justice

NC DOJ warns about sweetheart scammers who say they are overseas, often in the military or as a nurse, and push you off the dating site. Never send money to someone you have not met. Report it on 1-877-5-NO-SCAM or at ncdoj.gov/file-a-complaint.

Source: NC Department of Justice: Dating

Tell the FBI's IC3

If you sent money or details to someone you met online, file a complaint at ic3.gov and call your bank. Be wary of a match whose plans to meet keep falling through.

Source: FBI: Be wary of online romance scams

Report scams to the FTC

Report any romance scam at ReportFraud.ftc.gov, whether or not you lost money, or call 1-877-FTC-HELP. The FTC shares reports with law enforcement.

Source: FTC: New fraud reporting platform, ReportFraud.ftc.gov

Further readingOur sister site Smooch explains how romance fraud works and how to spot a catfish. WhichDating, our sister review site, explains the signs of a dating scammer.

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